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“Neuro-linguistic programming” is a marketing term for a “science” that two Californians—Richard Bandler and John Grinder—came up with in the 1970s.Bandler was a stoner student at UC Santa Cruz (just like I later was in the 00s), then a mecca for psychedelics, hippies and radical thinking (now a mecca for Silicon Valley hopefuls).When done correctly, she will think as if the information you’re feeding her are her own thoughts. It may be strange to you, but NLP is not really that common in love and dating.In fact, it’s more commonly used by salesmen and high-profile marketers in the world of business than anywhere else. I’ve gotten a lot of flak from the people who know this stuff for “exposing” the use of NLP in seduction to “outsiders”… The reality is that guys are getting the end of the short stick these days when it comes to dating… Which means that I am spreading this knowledge far and wide.I said to him: John leaned back in his chair and his eyes darted towards the ceiling. When you do this, her subconscious will believe it to be her own thoughts. Instead, what you want to do is So, let’s say you’re talking to a girl in a coffee shop. You wait three seconds, then copy her by fiddling your hair a little.
It’s kind of like the whole PUA thing that was popular in the mid-00s—a group of a few techniques that worked for a few unscrupulous people until the public figured out what was going on and rejected it, like the body identifying and rejecting foreign material.Grinder was at the time an associate professor in linguistics at the university (he had previously served as a Captain in the US Special Forces and in the intelligence community, not that this, you know, is important… Together, they worked at modeling the techniques of Fritz Perls (founder of Gestalt therapy), family therapist Virginia Satir and, most importantly, the preternaturally gifted hypnotherapist Milton Erickson.Bandler and Grinder sought to reject much of what they saw as the ineffectiveness of talk therapy and cut straight to the heart of what techniques actually worked to produce behavioral change. Here’s how NLP compares to traditional hypnotism: During hypnotism, the hypnotist delivers scripted dialogue to the target until she falls into a trance. Unlike hypnotism, however, NLP is much more “social” in its approach.
Let me paint the scene for you: I was sitting in my office here in sunny San Diego one day with a new Shogun Method client of mine. By this point, she might have sat back in her chair. Mirroring incorporates This means that to seduce a woman, you’ll need to covertly “guide” her thoughts to come to the conclusions that you want…