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No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the family car to avoid accidents.A few years ago, while living in London, I dated married men for companionship while I processed the grief of being newly divorced. When I created a profile on Tinder and Ok Cupid, saying I was looking for no-strings-attached encounters, plenty of single men messaged me and I got together with several of them. After being married for 23 years, I wanted sex but not a relationship. I wanted to make sure they had no interest in leaving their wives or otherwise threatening all they had built together.At 49, I was just about there myself, and terrified of losing my desire for sex. So we have an imbalance, an elephant-size problem, so burdensome and shameful we can scarcely muster the strength to talk about it.Maybe the reason some wives aren’t having sex with their husbands is because, as women age, we long for a different kind of sex.In some cases, women find love and companionship in their relationship with these men.Age, single men unwilling to settle down, the maturity of married men and experience amongst others are also reasons why single women prefer dating married men.Others I texted or talked with, which sometimes felt nearly as intimate.
Also, does this practice not put the parties involved at the risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections and other diseases especially when it is with men with many sexual partners?
I know I did, which is what led me down this path of illicit encounters.
After all, nearly as many women are initiating affairs as men. Meanwhile, the husbands I spent time with would have been fine with obligatory sex.
It’s also a tall order to have sex with the same person for more years than our ancestors ever hoped to live.
Then, at menopause, a woman’s hormones suddenly drop and her desire can wane.
The men on the other hand, are often distant from their families especially their wives.